Sex is Line-Less

NO boundaries, NO confinements, NO limits!

There are too many things that one could do during sex that one could never define sex as "boring." The problem people face, truly, is the issue with taboos. Once upon a time when sex wasn't talked about and "the birds and the bees" were the only words exchanged sex became something that was looked down upon and even shameful. DON'T BE ASHAMED! We are born sexual creatures whose instincts are to give, please, and receive. They don't have the 100+ positions for nothing! Let alone an endless supply of toys, tools, and accessories to work with!

Times are changing yes, but the only thing that is really changing is the openness we have with sex.

If you feel you are in a relationship that you want to take to new heights don't be afraid to say so! You will be your own enemy. The worst your partner can say is "I'd rather not" to which you'll simply have to accept. OR try to compromise with them so that you both can be happy. Those who aren't experienced with things "out of the ordinary" or outside of what they've done already sometimes find it difficult to register what it is YOU want to do/experiment with. If you're feeling intimidated because you think that he or she really understand what you need or be receptive: SAY IT ANYWAY, just watch your phrasing. Don't give ultimatums, don't make it seem as if they aren't satisfying you at all, and certainly don't get pouty or upset if the answer is no. Some people just aren't comfortable, but you'll never know that if you don't ask him or her - or even bring up what it is that would make YOU happy.

Experimenting is a fun way to open yourself up as well as your partner. The more you experiment the more spice you'll find and the more satisfaction you'll gain. Sex is absolutely LINE-LESS. There is nothing that defines "normal" or "abnormal." A lot of people think that the missionary position (heterosexually speaking) is the "normal" way to have sex... however, that is not the case. The reason it was seen as "traditional" is because men typically have the power...over everything...and for the man to be on top that would make sense. But DID YOU KNOW that the mutually preferred position is doggy style? Regardless of whether you are heterosexual or homosexual, that position takes the prize! However, that doesn't mean that's the only position you should try either! You can stand up, sit down, lay, recline, arch, bend.... seriously - the possibilities are ENDLESS!

STEP OUT SIDE OF THE BOX! Dont allow your fantasies, desires and turn-on's go unnoticed; especially if you feel you need something new to make your relationship survive. Sex is a big part of what makes a relationship last - don't sell yourself short. The longer you go deprived, the longer you'll be unhappy and the shorter your relationship is going to be.

Granted, if you don't have any qualms with how your relationship is going, you feel that everything is healthy and you are fully satisfied CONGRATULATIONS! There are not many people who can say that.

At the end of the day make sure you consider YOUR happiness. You can be in love and satisfied with your lover emotionally, but sexually is the other half of what makes you two sync. Don't sell yourself short, it's not worth it. I'm not saying walk away every time the sexual aspect doesn't line up - but I am saying to talk about it. Without communication you will get no where - and when you're in love it is certainly worth it to at least mention what it is that will keep you happy. Sex doesn't have to be stale - it can be EVERYTHING you want it to be.

Live free, Live happy, Live openly.